6 ways to stay balanced and look after yourself

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Our in-house Naturopath and Medical Herbalist  Rebecca Baylis shares six easy ways to stay balanced and care for yourself when things are a bit ‘up in the air’.

When you’ve got a lot on your plate, sometimes your wellbeing falls off the top of the list. We’ve all been there – it just naturally happens. Doing something for ourselves every day keeps us on the right track to stay balanced. Simple self-care tips that you can easily (and enjoyably!) welcome into your day are key.

When life gets uncertain, it can switch us into ‘stress mode’. In times like this, intentional self-care is key to make sure it doesn't impact our health or lead to burn out. For me, even mild stress can create some underlying tension, so staying calm and keeping my nervous system in check is more important than ever, so that I can feel emotionally resilient and relaxed. These are some of the holistic ways I kick into ‘rest and digest’ mode to help keep stress at bay. They’re focused on keeping it easy, with plenty of options to suit all personalities – choose a couple that complement your life.

1. Being in and around water

Research shows that being in and around water combats stress and induces relaxation. Water in the ocean, a swimming pool or even a bathtub switches your nervous system into ‘chill-out mode’. Scientists describe it as ‘soft fascination’ because water holds your attention but not in an information-rich way. Plus, even pretend water will do it – like pictures of water or water sounds, try a rain or babbling brook playlist to invoke feelings of relaxation. And there’s a good reason you love those soothing showers. A 2020 study from Frontiers in Psychology found as little as 10 minutes is enough to induce the ‘blue health’ calming benefits of water..

2. Mindful showering

Staying with the water theme, most of us shower daily, so this is an easy addition. Mindfulness has health benefits that are proven and measurable. Practicing mindfulness means staying in the present and focusing on what’s happening right now, at this very moment. We can use our five senses to make mindfulness easier. The physical sensation of water in the shower helps bring us into ‘the now’. Focus on the sound of the water, the scent of your soap. Keep bringing yourself back to the present and don’t judge yourself when your mind wanders off – after all, that it’s just what the brain naturally does. The positive effects of mindfulness are huge – heart health, gut health, mental health, stress relief and sleep - to name just a few.

3. Having a laugh

Laughing relieves stress and improves emotional resilience – it’s proven. It releases endorphins, our feel-good chemicals that boost relaxation and feelings of happiness. No joke, it’s so beneficial that ‘laughter therapy’ is now a thing. Share a laugh – spend time with people who make you laugh. Mock yourself – having a laugh at your own expense means you can make fun without the risk of insulting someone accidentally. So, put on a funny movie, podcast, or ask someone for their best/worst ‘dad joke’ – even faking a laugh can give similar health benefits. Fake laughing is so ridiculous it often turns into real laughter too. So that whole ‘laughter is the best medicine’, really is a thing.

4. Swapping your wine catch-up for a walk

Try switching your regular wine catch ups to walks with friends or family. This easy swap gives double benefit, exercise is proven to help your body deal with stress, plus you’re reducing alcohol intake. (Added bonus, the guffaws of laugher you might get at this suggestion gives your mates some laughter benefits!) Alcohol can feel relaxing initially, but it’s short-lived because it can disrupt your sleep and overall wellbeing. So, grab your walking shoes and a jacket. Bonus, if your walk is near a pond, or water- you just added ‘blue health’ benefits too.

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5. Prioritising sleep and rest

We all know good sleep is key for mental wellness – stacks of research show its benefits. But knowing it and putting it into action can be two different things. Sometimes we don’t prioritise it – it slips down the list and lands at the bottom. I find that reminding myself about the benefits of sleep is a useful prompt, it helps me stay motivated to keep it a priority. Here’s a list to help with this. Maybe put your favourite (or all of them) onto a post-it for your fridge.

Great reasons to prioritise sleep

Keep these in mind when you’re tempted to get less than the recommended 7-8 hours.

  • Clarity and focus
    Lots of studies show that proper sleep optimises brain function, this includes retention and decision making. We’ve all noticed our brains are quicker when our sleep is good
  • Weight management
    It seems unrelated, but research has linked short sleep duration, or not enough sleep with weight gain. Plenty of studies show that getting the recommended amount of sleep helps with healthy weight management.
  • Happy and calm mood
    Sleep and mood are intrinsically linked. Our overall mental health is also tied in with getting enough sleep, including feeling relaxed and happy.
  • Healthy skin aging
    Studies show that people have less visible signs of ageing and are also happier with their appearance when they’ve slept better. So, getting enough sleep helps us look more youthful and feel more confident, which is pretty compelling.

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6. For the night owl

If you’re a ‘night owl’ who (who who) comes alive at night, how about a ‘bed-time soon’ alarm on your phone? Set it for 30 mins to 1 hour before sleep time, it’s useful to signal that it’s wind-down time. For me, I often find it conveniently sounds just as I’m tempted to watch another episode of a series or start a house plant re-shuffle. 

While it’s super important to keep wellbeing at the top of our list, I've found when self-care is easy and fun, I’m more likely to stay on track with it. Simple things can make a huge difference for our overall wellness. Choose what works for you and keep your body ahead of stress, before it has a chance to catch up with you.

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